Soul said to me O you who have been busy by Fatamorgana world ..... What you want to search from the world ...? Look ... there is no person who look you Lights also are reluctant to brighten your Yourself yourselves in the morning Allah fed up with sin sin your megrim ............... You to worship Him But you also engage in immoral acts to him Are you sure your pray received by him? Do you believe in your repentance by His goodness? Cry yourself weeping with sorrow Throughout the life

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Rabiatul Adawiyah

Mustafa Asheeq December 27 at 2:09 am Reply
Posting this time, I would like to invite Brader & Sista kalam diving into a lover, Sayyidatuna Rabiah Al Adawiyyah. A woman who devotes her life only for God. He died in 180 AH

Coba deh, Brader & Sista kalam refer him.

* I apologize to God, for at least honesty, from the word Astaghfirullah.

He said this, certainly not the usual babble. He reminds us, we often bhwa confess repent, confess to apologize to God from a sin. But, rarely fatal, we again do it again; Like our apologies to Him alone main2 only.

Brader & Bukam Sista means no chance to purify themselves, loh-All have the same opportunity. But, saying he was, as if our ears flicked, and said, "If you've already apologized to Him, do not come back hard to do that sin again!"

* Maid, he said: He used to pray all night. When the pre-dawn, a moment he lay down to rest. But, I hear it said with fear, when he laid his body, "O me, how much time do you use to sleep? It is possible that you were sleeping, and could not get up except to hear the trumpet!"

Brader & Sista not required to imitate him, to be able to pray all night-it was something very difficult, although it is possible to do. But, emphasizing attention Brader & Sista in his theology. Kalam was also flicked our ears, saying, "Do you just want to enjoy enaknya sleep? Do you not want to give him a chance, to be closer to Him and do good? Day of Resurrection, bekalmu is worship! And you do not know when ajalmu come, and realize, how many of your deeds? "

Well .. Apart from that, Brader & Sista, we must always sdar, that the sins we accumulate, we are a little charity, and we do not know, when we die; Is this not the timeliness to repent, reform and enrich the good deeds?

((Makkah, 10 Muharram 1431))
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"Prayer

"Prayer ... Yuk Man,'ve duhur nich, will not trigger ..."
Once the Dudung invited Eman who was cool to dig a grave that will be used to bury a villager who died this morning.
Eman and Dudung are two friends who worked as gravediggers in the village.
"Bentar ach, responsibility nich ..... anyways still a long time, just half an hour too ... later wrote, near the time songs ... do not let all back and forth to the Mosque .." said Eman.
"Eh do so atuh Man ..." said Dudung replied ... "Kan pray at the beginning of time is better, anyways the show is still a long funeral, newly conducted tonight ..."
"Udah aja lah ... you go first Dung, I still bear nich, because if you stop later I was so lazy nerusinnya, aja gih you pray first, I'll catch up .." Eman still do not want to meet besikeras Dudung invitation.
"Fine then, I pray before ya Man, you catch ya later ... not to do ..... lo prayer was intentionally big sin, Man Do not forget it .." said the Dudung said goodbye, went the Small Mosque that is located some distance from the cemetery.
"Yes ... yes ..." replied the Eman, while ayik grave digging soil.
Eman Sangking fun hoe will forget the mandate to carry out its obligations Dudung Duhur Prayer. Even when the songs call to prayer sounded faintly in the distance. As for the Dudung was away kewarung to buy cigarettes.
Land of the dig's almost done, Si Eman was smoothed on the inside while squatting, but suddenly a rumbling sound from above, and the land that has been in the store collapsed galinya the Eman.
Eman was so shocked and could not do much, the land happened to the grave through his body, and that in the sense it is kepengapan and kegelepan.
Not long ago he tebangun and find a way out, to go up it is not possible, land on top so thick on him.
While trying to find a way, he thought he heard someone screaming behind a wall of menguruknya burial plot. Like to hear people are angry, cursing and torturing anyone, and he also thought he heard someone ask for forgiveness and pain.
With great curiosity, he then tried to kick the tomb wall to make a hole and see what happens.
It was not difficult to make a hole in the wall, even with a single jolt, a hole is created. From there she could see clearly, on the wall next to the place where the voices were heard, there is a big scary figure, black and red-eyed man who was torturing white clad as usual shroud he sees when burying the dead.
The great man's loud as he hands holding a barbed whip and memecuti the shroud's berkain replies ...." THIS PERSON DOES NOT WANT SHALAT!! he exclaimed loudly as he whipped the man DUER ...." .. "the voice was loud crack berkain hit the shroud was ,..." AMPUUUNNNN ... TAUBAAATTT!" the shroud berkain howled in pain ...." THIS SENTENCE FOR MAN WHO TIME SHALAT neglect ..!!" back big man was whipping people ...." DUER shroud berkain .. 're loud crack of the body of the shroud's berkain, groaning in pain and shouts of shroud berkain It does not make the big man to stop his actions.
Eman with fear, he occasionally shut his eyes to see this horror ... "Wow this might ..!!" called the punishment of the grave" he thought ....
"Halazim Astagfirullah siska horrible .... so grave for those who pray meniggalkan waduh ..... .... .. Hiiiiiiiiii! I have not prayed ...."
"Hiiiiiiii, fear ...." Eman and hurriedly left the place of the punishment and try to get out of the ground. Apparently he easily out of the ground, it was no burden to get out of there. Whether because it was afraid, or did he already has power again so that the soil above it is very easy to get rid of.
He ran at full speed as he was repeatedly Istigfar, he was really afraid to see what had happened.
That he thought the time was the Mosque and pray .... melakuan which it passes along the way she was screaming to tell people that the temuinya on the road and let you know that there sisksa tomb, especially for those who died a prayer ... .
"Mas ...'ve prayed yet?" Said Eman on temuinya someone in the street ...
"Buruan prayer Mas, do not be late .." said the man advised Eman .. "If you do not pray or prayer, siksanya lo mas horrible, I had seen people in torment in the grave ..." continued the Eman.
But people who talk instead of nothing, saw the Eman did not, even he was impressed while working on something cool ....
"Er was people in love actually know nothing, feel later if she does not pray, will the punishment of death such as this one .." in the heart of the Eman, as he ran back a person dies it cool.
Amid the way he met with a group of people carrying a stretcher or belankar with people in it are covered with banana leaves. They bring people died because kecalakaan apparently.
Among those who raised these litters to see the Dudung Eman, friends and people he knew, a case of Pak Pak RT and RW, what the hell, who's dead, he thought ...
"Dung, who is on a stretcher tuh? Eman on Dudung asked. But the Dudung, ignoring the question Eman, he was too hasty to bring the person on a stretcher, even Dudung nearly half a run ....
"Ya udah lah, maybe Dudung not hear, I'd rather pray at the Mosque had" thought the intention to continue Eman Prayer, he returned mebayangkan in the cemetery scene ...
As in the Mosque, he was back talking to people who were there, and tell new event in its natural course, and invite those people to not leave a prayer or melalaikannya, but everybody seemed busy with her own, so that in the ocehkan Eman, apparently has no meaning.
From the Mosque he planned to go straight home, to report on his Emak what had happened to him.
At home, he found his home filled with people. Sitting in front of the house, some people in chat and partly stunned silence many like to think of something. Much he knew, because nearly all are neighbors.
Each of the temuinya he said, he let what happened to him and the terrible punishment of the grave, but all indifferent course, ignores the arrival of the Eman.
Eman then rushed into the house screaming memangil mother ...
"Mak mak ....., Emak where??, Koq many people in the house of Madame .... what's wrong? What happened at His mother? "
Then he went into the middle room, where he found many people were around something in the fabric cover, such as those covering the dead, he thought. And he realized that there was a death in his house, lest his mother, he thought .....
"Emaaaaaaaakkk! Do not live me Maaakkk!!. His mother never died, "he shouted," I'll be with whom? "
Eman ran over the body, but it surprised him, because before it was the cry His mother was also lamenting the body ...
Eman confused, Eman shocked .... then who meningal it, it asked myself ...
Not long ago, the Dudung, his friend came and approached Emaknya. Eman Dudung asked ... "Dung, who died this Dung? His mother wept koq, when a father is long dead .. "
Dudung silent, like the Dudung also sad .... then he slowly approached the corpse and open the drapes of the person's face in it ....
Eman so dag dig dug ... wondering, who the hell are there people in there, who the deceased person ....
When the cloth was open face, he saw the dead man's face, he did recognize that face, he was very familiar with that person, someone who is always there with him. The face exactly the same as he always saw the glass, when he's mirror ...
Yes ... the face is the face of him ...." So, she is me .... I HAVE DIED ..!!!!, TIDAAAAAAAAAAAKKKKK ..!!!!"


Authors:
This story is fiction, even we never know the torment of the grave is. But I want to write on my story this is, that the remorse that would come last. If only this kind of regret came when we were alive, we can immediately improve themselves and repent immediately. But if this happens, then we putuslah practices. We are not able to improve again, then the suction of God will be waiting for us in the grave and nature akhrat.
Come on my brothers, through this group, we remind each other, telling each other, lest we all see the name SISKA KUBUR pray for each other ... we advise each other.
"OH MY GOD, WE KUBUR LAPANGKANLAH Later, FREE FROM ALL OUR punishment of the grave, WE ALL FREE FROM HELL API punishment, AND WE ALL CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE surgamu WITHOUT suction, AMEN ... AMEN ... YES .... rabbal alamin

charitable charitable main

Abdullah bin Mas'ud said, "I asked the Prophet kpd 'alaihi wa sallam about deeds, the main and most beloved of God? Prophet alaihi wa sallam replied, First prayer in time (in one report mentioned the prayer at the beginning of time), both devoted parents go for the second, third jihad in the way of Allah "[I/134 Hadith Bukhari, Muslim No.85, Fath Baari 2 / 9]

devoted parents

kpd devoted parents yg dpt eliminates the trouble of going through at this bertawasul with these authentic charity. On the basis of the hadith the Prophet alaihi wa sallam from Ibn Umar.
"Meaning: Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam said," One day three men walked, then rain. They take shelter in a cave at the foot of a mountain. When they were in it, suddenly a large stone fell and covered the door of the cave. Some of them said to another wrote, 'Remember who best charities you've ever done'. Then they begged God and go for bertawassul through charity, with the hope that God will remove this difficulty. One of them said, "O Allah, I actually have two parents of age-me-up while I had a wife and kids were little reply. I mengembala goats, when coming home I always give milk and go for my parents before anyone else. One day I hrs walk far to fetch firewood and make a living, so home it was late at night and I dpti my parents are asleep, and I remain as before milking. Milk is still I hold and I went to both but both still asleep. My kids whining crying for milk and I'm ill give it. I will not give go for anyone before I wrote dairy milk I give my parents go for. Then I wait until the second wake. In the morning when my parents woke up, I give this milk go for both. After the second go for a drink and then I gave anaku children. Oh God, I wish this designation is the designation of cheese krn you, O God, open to. "Then the stone cave wall-door Itupun shifted" [Hadith Bukhari (Fath Baari 4 / 449 No. 2272), Muslim (2473) (100) Chapter Qishshah Ashabil Ghaar Ats Wat Tsalatsah-Tawasul bi Shalihil A'mal]

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Umar Bin Khottob

A period in Omar's leadership, it happened in Abu. Arab society, having a severe famine. The rain no longer falls. Dry trees, countless animals that die horribly. Land almost blackened ground like ashes.
Desperate whack everywhere. At that time the leader Umar show the real personality of a real leader. People noticed the situation closely. Executed his responsibilities wholeheartedly. Every day he instructed officials to slaughter a camel, camel pieces and distribute the announcement to all the people. People flocked to come to eat. The more painful heart. At that time, the anxiety became increasingly thick. With a trembling heart, tongue kelunya said, "O Allah, do not let people see the destruction in Muhammad's hands."
Umar taboo to eat meat, Samin oil, and milk for his stomach. Nothing, he worried less food for its people. He, the brave, just ate some bread with olive oil. As a result, his stomach felt hot and to the officer he said "Cut that oil heat with fire". Oil was cooked, but the heat increasing stomach and crake. If it so, struck his stomach with his fingers and said, "Berkeronconglah all you want, and you'll still find oil, to my people can live full and fair."
Almost every night Umar ibn Khattab traveled secretly. Accompanied by one friend, he went out of the village. This he did to find out people's life. Umar worry if their rights are not fulfilled by government officials.
That night too, along with Aslam, Caliph Omar was in a remote village. Villages that are in the middle of a desolate desert. At the time of Caliph aghast. Of an already tattered tent, there was a little girl was crying prolonged. Umar ibn Khattab and Aslam's rushing to the camp, who knew the residents needed urgent help.
After the close, Umar saw an elderly woman was menjerangkan pot on the stove fire. The smoke from the steaming pot, while the mother continued to stir the pot with a long wooden spoon.
"Assalam Alaikum," Umar gave greetings.
Hearing the greeting Umar, the mother's head as he answered mendongakan greeting Umar. But after that, he was back at work stirring the pot

My brothers and gentlemen,

Assalamualaikum,
1. My brothers and gentlemen, a brother of the group named Syafrul Judge has written Marbun didinding group goes something like this:
"for all jgn saudara2ku never typed kata2 Ass ... whatever the reason karna sense of the word is not polite. (see the dictionary)"

So the essence of the content of the writing is, not that we start the conversation via chat or send a letter to begin writing in Ass ...
You mean we might be short for Assalamualaikum, but it said the Ass in English means "ass" or "donkey".
We know that the butt joint is part of our body that serves to remove large dirt or impurity, while the donkey is an animal often interpret as FOLLY.
And again if we write only the Ass only, it must be the meaning of the greeting to be not true. So once again, do not write the word ASS in the beginning of each of our conversation ...

2. Do not replace GOD with 4JJ writing, because writing or the letters turned out to have meaning for the people of Christians, which means:
FOR JESUS & Judas.

Hopefully useful ...
Wassalam

Virginity now?

Bismi-lhamdu god-li wa-wa-shshalatu god-ssalamu wa 'ala-god apostolic
wa 'ala alihi wa wa ma ashhabihi-wwalah, amma ba'd, Assalamu Alaikum.

what purpose sech wedding?
As a Muslim, for that would earn descent we'll reply mendo'akan we already lying under the grass and plants in the basement. agree right?

or there is also a deliberate only to lead and align
request to haunt biological urge. so far from
adultery, agree well khan?

then, how-god guidance rasulu SAW about this marriage? we have not denger that sebaik2nya marry a Muslim because of his religion?

so kalu in matters of religion we do not need bincangkan khan?

which became a phenomenon now is actually not trying to choose who is a virgin or had been married, divorced widowed kerna, he asked himself the same time her husband divorced, or abandoned to die.

so once again, now, our time is not only the two
this option as mentioned above it only, karna we find a non-virgin kerna "accident" was not a virgin anymore, so instead kerna never married or had married a Muslim, but he explained kerna results and ulahnya adultery.

Quran says:

"a-laa zzaanii illa yankihu au zaaniyatan waa musyrikatan-zzaaniyatu
yankihuhaa illa la au zaanin thalika musyrikun wahurrima
'alaa-lmu'miniina "

Annur letter: paragraph 3:
Men who commit adultery but do not marry women who
adultery, or idolatrous women, and women who commit adultery are not married but by a man who commits adultery or men idolaters,
and that therefore it is forbidden for those who believers.

there are several opinions' ulama of forbidden here, there is
There also argues that unlawful allow. merka all there
argumentnya also sech.

nach is a problem, we, gimaana nech?
want to marry a Muslim who never committed adultery?
willing mimum of "glass" that has been cracked? azza sech like.

or depending on her as she's this? is still in a state like
berzinanya aatauuuuu period was in a state of repentance, re -
and the Islamic kekeimanan?

this needs to be discussed clearly and trank trus gambalng before
marriage occurs for calon2 bride. more baek someone else reply
who can be trusted, for example guru2nya, or murabbinya to diikut
included.

I am writing this as hanyalach azza handful of pebbles to
digoncankan a large stone, mudah2an.

divine wabi-wa-lhidayah taufiq,

Wassalamu Alaikum

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

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Sunday, October 4, 2009

testament to the women apostles

Once we are satisfied with our postings about women, the complementary bit we want to add something ..
@ At the Farewell Pilgrimage, hajj separation between Rosululloh Saw the flock, he delivered berorasi last messages. Among the last message he is, will that be gentle on her, giving the rights of their lives, the rights to education. Also to always loved the ladies. Is there seagung personally instructed him to like it? Eternal message of all time.

@ Rosululloh had one day to go to the mosque holding his female descendants. Abil Sy.Umamah bint ash. What was he doing in front of friends? He was praying while holding the little girl. If the ruku ', he put it, when standing, he took profit held back. Is there a person who appreciates his seagung woman like that?

@ Rosululloh is Abul Banat, all the children who grew up, is that the girls. 4 girls, mother of Fatima, mother Zainab, ruqoyyah bunda, bunda Urn Kulthum. Rosul lovingly educate them, raise them. Yet the social conditions of the world as it is very demeaning women everywhere. Then, if we are not copying Rosululloh, we want to imitate anyone?

@ Do not ever try to harass women, respect them. Including the value it is not her in the issues of emancipation and feminism in the wrong direction and was deliberately formatted to trap women.

@ Women and men are not created except to each side to work in a field of life. If a man cultivate their ground, planting seedlings, sowing the seeds. So she chose and sorting the seeds, watering and cleaning of the wild plants that interfere with

@ Kullu dzati shidarin, kholah; each wearing a bra, is kita.saudara maternal aunt. Then, the child does not like to see her mother happy? Which child is not jealous and angry if an aunt in alone.?

@ What a true Rosululloh: (istaushuu bin-nisa-i.... Khoiro)

Friday, October 2, 2009

How to Be Confident?


How to Be Confident?
Combined 3M
In the daily slang, confident that we mean self-confidence. Everyone really had a problem with this one term. There were people who felt he had lost his sense of confidence in almost all areas of his life. Problems may be related to the crisis itself, depression, loss of control, feeling helpless at the side of a bright future, and others. There are also people who feel not confident with what he was doing or with what practiced. There are also people who feel less confident when facing certain situations or circumstances. Based on the practice of life, we can say that the latter is normal in the sense that experienced by all humans.
Actually, what we mean by the term that confident? If you look at the scientific literature, there are some terms related to this issue pls. Here I just want to mention just four:
 Self-concept: how do you conclude yourself as a whole, how do you see your self-portrait as a whole, how you yourself mengkonsepsikan as a whole.
 Self-esteem: how far you have positive feelings about yourself, how far you've got something that you feel is valuable or worthy than yourself, to what extent you believe that something of value, dignity or self worth in your
 Self-efficacy: the extent to which you have confidence in your own capacity to be able to perform tasks or deal with good results (to succeed). This is called a general self-efficacy. Or also, as far as you believe you are in the field of capacity in handling your particular business. This is called the specific self-efficacy.
 Self-confidence: how far you have belief in your assessment of your ability and how far you can feel the "appropriateness" to succeed. Self confidence is a combination of self-esteem and self-efficacy (James Neill, 2005)
Based on that, we also can make such a conclusion that self-confidence is the effect of how we feel (M1), believes (M2), and knowing (M3). People who have low confidence or have lost confidence in negative feelings toward him, have faith in the ability of his weak and have less accurate knowledge of the capacity they have. When this is associated with the practice of everyday life, people who have low confidence or have lost their faith, tend to feel / behave as follows:
 Does not have something (desires, goals, targets) who fought in earnest
Have decisions  Not a decissive step (floating)
 Easily frustrated or give up when facing problems or difficulties
 Less motivated to get ahead, lazy or half-half
 often fail in perfecting the duties or responsibilities (not optimal)
 awkward in dealing with people
 You can not demonstrate the ability of speaking and listening skills to convince
 Often have unrealistic expectations
 Too perfectionist
 Too sensitive (sensitive)
In contrast, the great confidence, they have positive feelings toward him, had a strong conviction on him and have accurate knowledge of the capabilities of the. People who have good self confidence is not the only person who feels capable (but really can not afford) but is a person who knows that he can based on experience and calculation.
Various studies and experience have explained that a person's self confidence associated with the two most fundamental things in our life practice. First, the confidence associated with how a person fighting for his desire to achieve something (achievement or performance). It's like Mark Twin said: "What do you need to achieve is to have a full commitment and confidence. "
Second, the confidence associated with a person's ability in dealing with problems that hinder the struggle. People who trust his good will tend to conclude that he was "bigger" than the problem. Conversely, people who have low self-esteem will tend to conclude that the problem is much bigger than himself. Recognized this as Mohammad Ali. "The only thing that makes people run away from the challenge is the weakness of self-confidence."
Conclusion Bandura (Dr. Albert Bandura, 1994), explained that self-efficacy had a great big contribution to the motivation of a person. These include among others: how one merumukan goals or targets for itself, the extent to which people struggle for that goal, how strong it was able to overcome those problems, and as tough as what men could face failure.
Not only Bandura such a conclusion. Education experts have pitched the same conclusion. Self-efficacy would be a good one critical success (students) in carrying out their duties. They better have the mental readiness to learn, more had a strong incentive to work harder, more resilient in overcoming adversity and better able to reach the level of higher performance (Pajares & SCHUNK, The Development of Achievement Motivation, San Diego: Academic Press, 2002. ).

Negative sides
Normally it can be said that all people want to have a high confidence or strong. This is for example related to the two things we've discussed in advance. There is only one thing we need to watch out that there are some negative sides behind the high confidence that. Negative sides of this we need to manage so as not to produce proportional attitudes and behaviors that harm or damage. Among the negative side are:
 Arrogance. We put other people down (looking down or humiliate) for being higher or above. Such arrogance is rejected by all the values in this world. Justified we feel more than others but the important thing here is not until we look down on others, let alone to insult both in words and deeds.
 Feeling self-righteous and can not accept other people's truths. Sometimes there are reasons to feel right but we need to watch out for is the emergence of the true feelings that make us conclude all the wrong people. Even if we are right but if we felt that everyone else is wrong, it can make us wrong.
 Reject the opinions of others / unable to hear other people's opinions, suggestions of others, do not want to take lessons from the experiences of others or stubborn (stubbornness). Opinions of others is not all we need to listen but not everything needs to be rejected. There are positive things that we can take the opinions of others. It is said, one factor that makes the business collapsed after the triumph is for refusing to listen to opinions of others, refusing to learn from others, being flexible to change. They become covered with glory during this experience.
 Having a model of aggressive communication, authoritarian-style force, or without empathy. Communication model that often lead to poor quality of the relationship "Sincere", as well as invite more conflict, opposition or resistance. Instinctively, someone else will be more comfortable when approached with a model of empathic communication, assertiveness, or persuasive.
 Lack of calculation of the potential hazards or lack of attention to things that detail. Stand up to the challenge, have high confidence in the ability to overcome problems or to think "beyond the technique" is indeed a positive and necessary. But if it makes us accustomed to trivialize, underestimate or Careless, reckless, and similar, of course dangerous.
 Lack of capacity to trust other people or too perfectionist in judging others. Not easy to trust other people talk or do not easily trust other people an explanation for its ability before any evidence is real, this is needed. There are times when we can not 100% trust other people. But it would be a problem if we can not trust anyone else for all things, can not delegate to others for all the work, always underestimate, always wanted to be a "police" on others, and similar, this could distress yourself.
 Have the self-assessment "over", fixing the remuneration is too high, demanding to be treated too idealistic. Legitimate self-assessment we have a once sky-high, set the "price" as high, but if it makes our lives narrow, then we need to create an alternative thinking and learn to be flexible. Do not let us break our fault too hard. Do not let all that we can not distinguish between knowing yourself and do not know themselves in practice. The difference is very thin.
Negative sides that I mentioned above we might call the term "too confident". This is also different from the confident. According to the rules which apply in the practice of life, something that was so, it is usually considered bad and ugly.
Build Confidence

For some of us who have issues around low self-esteem or feel has lost confidence, maybe you can make the following steps as the process of exercise:
1. Creating a positive self-definition.
Steve Chandler says, "The best way to change your belief system is to change the definition of yourself." How menciptkan positive self definition. Among the ways that we can do is:
o Create a positive conclusion about yourself / create a positive opinion about yourself. Positive here means that can encourage or who can build, not a destructive or destructive.
o Learning to see the positive parts / extra / power we have
o Open a dialogue with yourself about the positive things we can do, from the smallest and from the start that we can do today.
In addition, you need to do is to stop negative self-opinion that emerged, such as I do not have anything extra, my life is not worth it, I only burden on the community, and so on. After we stop, our task is to replace it with a positive, constructive and motivatif. This requirement is only the beginning and not enough to build confidence.
2. Fight for a positive desire
Next is to formulate programs / self-improvement agenda. This might look like has a new target that we wish to achieve or formulate positive steps we want to do. Whether it's big or small, the point should be no change or improvement to a more positive direction. The more positive things (targets, goals or desires) that we can achieve, the more confident we are stronger. We need to remember that in the end we will only become better by doing something good for us. Period. No one can change this principle.
3. Troubleshooting positively
Pede also be strengthened by providing proof to ourselves that we had managed to overcome the problems that afflict us. The more problems we could solve, the more stronger pede. Over time we become people who are not easily insecure when facing problems. Because there is a reminder that, once we've used to using tactics resignation or lose, this will be a habit that makes us often problematic.
4. Base has a positive decision.
If we read from the practice of life as a whole, there is no one who is always confident of his ability in dealing with problems or in creating desire. Class people who have had Mahatma Gandhi shaky when suddenly changing reality unexpected. But, Gandhi had a way that we can imitate: "When I was desperate so I always remember that throughout history, the way of truth and love always wins. There are several tyranny and murder of a quick win but finally seemed to lose. Think I'm saying this, ALWAYS ". That is, trust Gandhi grow again after remembering that his pace was based on the principles of right.
5. Have a model / example of the positive
What matters more is to find someone else who can we trust the example of him. This indeed requires us to often opened my eyes to see others who are better than us and make it as a lesson. So the importance of the role of these other people, some say that we can improve ourselves of two things: a) personal experience (experiencing life) and b) duplicating (copying and studying other people). Prove it! Good luck.
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The nature of beauty and good looks


The nature of beauty and good looks

1. Eat and drink sufficiently

To be beautiful and handsome, and brotherly akhwat not eat casually / pleases with greed, but ate the extent to enforce the bones to get the power in running the daily activities well.

Remember the word of God Almighty.: "Eat and drink, do not limit berlebih-lebihan/melampaui. For Allah loves not those who exaggerated." (Q. S. Al Araaf 7: 31). Then explained in a hadith: 'From Ibn `Umar from the Prophet. His saying:" Those who disbelieve ate with seven stomachs, and the believers to eat with a stomach. "(Reported by Muslim).

Messenger of Allah. avoid eating and excessive drinking. He ate and drank only when stomach feels hungry and fill the stomach in three parts, one third for food, one third for drink, and a third for breathing. Result is usually easy to eat a lot of obesity, susceptible to disease, tend to worship lazy, lazy work. etc..

2. Aim Sports

So beauty / handsomeness that God Almighty. bestowed on us can be maintained, try always fit physical condition through exercise according to interest / age respectively. Arrange the time on the sidelines of an existing activity. In a hadith explained: "The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer." (H. R. Muslim).

With exercise, God willing, our bodies can better preserved, so that these conditions can help brotherly / akhwat perform tasks of daily routine with energetic.

3. Maintain cleanliness

All you need is kept clean all the members of the body and clothing. Bukhari hadith declares: "Go take a shower on Friday and although you do not keramaslah in junub and wear perfume" fragrances difference between the Ikhwan and akhwat there, namely: From Abu Hurairah ra, he said: Perfume is the man who smelled the aroma and does not appear color and perfume women are looking color and not smell the fragrance. "(Tirmidhi and An-Nasai). Ikhwan / akhwat should be able to maintain the appearance of the smell of sweat is not good.
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Also in the hadith reported by Bukhari and Muslim are explained cleanliness by keeping one's body of five cases including the nature, namely circumcision, shaving the pubic hair, plucking the armpit hairs, cutting the nails, and shortened the mustache.

To clean clothes, and Nasai Imam Ahmad narrates from Jabir ra hadts, he said: "Allah's Messenger.'ve Visited me. When he saw a man by the clothes worn and tattered, he recalled: Apparently he did not have soap to wash clothes It. " In this hadith, the Prophet. not like someone who meet and hang out with other people wearing dirty clothes and worn as long as he could wash and clean.

Messenger of Allah. teaches us that the clothes of a Muslim should always be neat clean drafts, so that looks delicious in the eye. Of course, these clothes do not have the habit of always collecting new clothes especially with the amount of exaggeration, the most important thing is neat and clean, because the clothes that become rizki we really what to no longer be used by themselves.

Dental hygiene and mouth, "Had it not burdensome to my people, I would tell them to bersiwak each time to pray." (H. R. Bukhari and Muslim).
Maintain cleanliness of the hair, the Prophet. He said: "He who has hair, he should respect it (keep it)." (H. R. Abu Daud and Abu Hurayrah r.a.). It means respecting the hair clean, combed, giving fragrance (hair oil), and keep it well. Islam does not like people who let their hair messy / disheveled, dirty, and smelly.






4. Self smoothing

Word of God Almighty.: "Say, who is God forbid that He jewelry out for servants to him and (who are prohibited pulakah) rizki good things?" (Q. S. Al-Araf 7: 32).

In interpreting these verses, Imam Qurthuby said: "Imam Makhul A'ishah narrated from, he recalled:" Once a group of friends waiting for the Messenger of Allah. in front of the door. When he was about to come out to them, he mirrored in the water in the vessel in the house. After he smoothed his hair and beard, I (Aisha) said: "You do this, O Messenger of Allah?" "Yes, if someone would see his brother let him straighten himself. For verily Allah is beautiful and loves beauty," replied the Prophet. "

Each person needs to maintain the neatness of her, not letting themselves in a wrinkled and ragged appearance with the excuse to zuhud. Messenger of Allah. themselves recommend groomed, but he was the most tawadhu and zuhud.
So, as long as it does not memperapi excessive self, God Almighty. suggested, "O son of Adam, wear beautiful clothes at every (enter) mosques, to eat and drink and be not extravagant. for Allah loves not those who exaggerated. Say:" Who prohibited the jewels of God, who issued for the servants to him and (who are prohibited pulakah) rizki good things? "Say:" All that (provided) for the believers in the life of the world, especially (for them) on the Day of Resurrection. Thus do we explain this passage for those who know. "(Surat al-Araf 7: 31-32).
But a Muslim woman should not tabaruj. God Almighty. has banned tabaruj through Q.S. An-Nur 24: 60 and Q.S. Al-Ahzab 33: 59. According to Ibn Kathir, tabaruj means women who go out and walk / expose myself in front of men (tabaruj ignorance). According to Bukhari, tabaruj is an act of a woman who revealed her beauty to others, and according Muqatil tabaruj is a woman who let her veil, revealing a necklace and bracelet.

Also true Muslim woman is always aware and remember the concept of attitude tawazun (mid / balance) in all things, do not get dressed up / spruce or exaggerated self-measure performance based on material wealth. "Woe to the dinar and dirham slave and slave silk and velvet. If he was given a favor, he was happy and if not given he hated." (H. R. Bukhari).

The latter, in order to look ikhwan / akhwat can be beautiful and handsome should be complemented by the maintenance of common elements with the science of the mind. Indeed, not all people have the intelligence and equal opportunity. However, brotherly / akhwat should always seek and ask for additional knowledge to Allah., As explained in the word of God Almighty., "And Say," Ya Rabbi, add to knowledge. "(Surah Taha 20: 114). In a hadith , A'ishah said: "The best of Ansar women are women. They are not shy to ask in order tafaquh fiddin (deeply religious problems). "(Bukhari, Muslim).
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Therefore, a need still sought is a concern to always try to add / understanding / practice of Islamic science bit by bit, the process of seeking knowledge until the end of life, because it will be the basis and do one's thinking. Similarly, other science, we learned as a means bertaqarrub (draw near) to God Almighty. So that, God willing, with the integrated elements of the heart, body / physical, and science in themselves and akhwat comrade, good looks and beauty we can bring salvation of the world and the hereafter. Allaah Bishshawab Nature.

O Allah, make light in my heart, light in my grave, the light in front of me, light behind me, light on my right, light on my left, light above me, light below me, light in my hearing, light in my sight, light on the hair, the light on my skin, light in my flesh, light in my blood, light in my bones. O God, besarkanlah me light and give me light and make me light the light and add me, add me light, add me light. Aamiin.
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Thursday, October 1, 2009

Start to Married


Start to Married


Marriage means having love and cooperation, giving priority to the interests of others and sacrifice, peace and mawaddah, noble spiritual relationship and attachment disyari'atkan bodies.
Marriage means a pole house is Adam and Hawwa, and from them formed families and descendants, and the houses, then community, then come the various nations and countries. In this case, Allah Subhanahu wata'ala says, meaning, "And He (also) who created man from water, then He made man (a) offspring and mushaharah." (al-Furqan: 54).

Mushaharah of familial relationships caused by the bonds of marriage, such as law, laws, laws, and so on.
Marriage is the fortress that can suppress one's sexual wildness, pushing syahwatnya desire, genitals and honor guard and prevent him from keterjerumusan into disobedience holes and nests of indecency.
We see how the Qur'an evoke in each other couples a sense that they each need each other and improve each other's shortcomings.

Indeed women are branches of men and boys is the root for a woman. Therefore, the root is always needed twigs and branches are always requires root. "On this, Allah Subhanahu wata'ala says, means," He Who created you from a single self and from it He created his wife, so he was pleased with him. "( al-raf: 189).
What is meant by self is one which meant Adam and his wife is Hawwa. Therefore, marriage in Islam is not merely maintain the integrity of the human species, but more than that is running the command of Allah Subhanahu wata'ala as in his word, that is, "So women marry (other) that you like." ( An-Nisa `: 3)
Under the auspices of the Islamic teachings, the two married couples live their lives in kesenyawaan and unity in all things; unity of feeling, unity of heart and encouragement, unity of ideals and destiny and others.
Among the greatness of the Qur'an and its perfection, we see all these meanings, whether they had counted or not, reflected in a verse of the Koran, namely: "They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for they are. " (al-Baqarah: 18)
Meaning Sakinah, Mawaddah and Rahmah
The Qur'an has described the relationship instincts and feelings between husband and wife as one of the signs of God and the infinite pleasure of Him. Allah Subhanahu wata'ala says, means, "And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives from jenismu itself, so you tend to be and feel reassured him, and made him think of you love and affection. Lo in that really there are signs for those who reflect. " (ar-Rum: 21)

Tendencies and a sense of peaceful husband to his wife and sticking with her husband's wife is a thing which is in accordance with the nature and instincts. This verse is the foundation of life is filled with an atmosphere so cool feeling. The wife is like a husband and shelter, after a struggle all day to get a bite of rice, and find comfort after infestation feeling tired and tired. And, in the last round, all dumped into keletihannya that this shelter. Yes, to his wife who must accept it with a full sense of love, a cheerful face and smile. It was then, her husband got her ears that hear well, heart of compassion and gentle words recalled.

Profile shalihah woman confirmed it was created through the goal, that of the peace for a man with all the meanings embodied in the word "Peace (vegas) it. And, in order for a peace worth saying, then he (she) must have some criteria, among Most importantly; owner feels like to see him; Ability to maintain family and possessions; not let people who oppose him stay with her.

Associated with ar-Rûm letter, paragraph 21 above, there are some reflections:
First Meditations
Abu al-Hasan al-Mawardy said about the meaning, "And He made between you affection and love." (ar-Rum: 21). In the verse there are four opinions: First, that the meaning Mawaddah (feel the love) is al-Mahabbah (love), while the meaning of Rahmah (compassion) is the ash-Syafaqah (pity). Secondly, that the meaning Mawaddah is al-Jima '(sexual intercourse) and Al-Rahmah is Walad (child). Third, that the meaning of loving someone Mawaddah is large (the older) and Rahmah is mercy to the child (the younger). Fourth, that means they are berkasih mutual affection between couples. (al-Mawardy: an-Nukat Wa al-'Uyûn)

Ibn Kathir said, "Among His signs that show the greatness and perfection of His power, He created woman to be your partner from your own kind, so you tended and peaceful to him. If he makes all the Children of Adam (humans) were male men and women made from other types in addition to them, as if coming from the Jinn or animals, it would not have happened unity of hearts between them and the spouse (wife), even contrary to flee, when the couple came from another species. Then, in the perfection of His mercy unto the Children of Adam, He made them partners of their own kind and make among them a sense of love (mawaddah), which is love and compassion (mercy), compassion. Because it could be a man man tied the woman for love or love for him to get a descent from him or she (the woman) takes him in terms of income or proximity to the liver occurs between them, and so forth "(Tafsir Ibn Kathir)
Reflections into two
Let us briefly renungi his word, "from jenismu own." Wife is a noble human being where there is equality between himself and the kind of husband, while men have a degree Qiwâmah (kepempimpinan) for women (read: al-Baqara: 228).
Husband's leadership is not acting authoritarian means silencing the opinion of others (wives, red). His leadership was like a traffic sign regulating travel but not to let him go. Therefore, male leadership does not mean eliminating the role of women in the opinion and assistance in raising a family.
Meditations to Three
Security, peace and stability can bring salvation to the children of every thing that threatens their existence and make them deviate and far from the straight path, because they grow up in an 'institution' that is clean, there is no fraud or interference, in it has been clearly the rights and way of life, each individual doing his duty as the word of the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wasallam, "Each of you is leader and every leader responsible for the lead."
Leadership has been determined and each individual is willing to others by not doing things that exceed the limit. This is the meaning of his words in the letter `An-Nisa, verse 34.
Reflections to the Four
Each husband and wife should respect each other opinions. There should be discussion based on compassion, but should not be too long and to the extent an argument. One should also succumb to others opinions especially if one looks the strength of opinion, for an objective discussion of dew sharpened with affection and love will overcome all disasters in order to preserve the life of a happy household.
Meditations to Lima
Sense of love and affection that are embedded as the nature of God wata'ala Subhanahu between spouses will increase in line with good increases in both. On the other hand, will decrease as the decrease in the goodness in them, because naturally, people love people who treat kanya gently and always doing good for him. Well, especially if that person is the husband or wife who between them have a sense of love of Allah Subhanahu wata'ala, that compassion would be increased and strengthened. The Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wasallam said, "This world is fun and best joy is shalihah woman."
Meditations to Six
The best impression gained from Nabawi households is maintained rights in the husband-wife relationship both during life and after death. This can be seen from the wife of the Messenger of Allaah saying 'alaihi wasallam dear,' A'isha radi 'anha who was jealous of Khadija radi' anha, his first wife when he had died and had never seen. It was simply because he often remember the good and services.
May Allah Subhanahu wata'ala make Muslims households households that are always filled with vegas, mawaddah and mercy. And this can be realized, when the Muslims back to the teachings of their Prophet and copying his domestic life.

Source: al-hayah Tsulâtsiyyah az-Zawjiyyah: as-Sakan al-Mawaddah, ar-Rahmah ibn Muhammad Dr.Zaid work ar-Rummany. (Abu Hafsa)
Netter Al-Sofwa a glorified Allah, the Exalted, Delivering the Truth is the duty of every Muslim. Our current opportunity to preach is to deliver this newsletter to our brothers who do not know. May Allah the Exalted Replying 'Amal Ibadah Kita. Aamiin

ten Mistakes In Educating Children

Ten Mistakes In Educating Children



By Muhammad ibn Ibrahim Al-Hamad
Children are the mandate for both parents. So, we as parents are responsible for this mandate. Not a few errors and omissions in educating children has become a real phenomenon. It was a great disaster; and including betrayed trust God.
As for the house, was the first school for the children. Collection of several houses that will form a community building. For a child, before getting education in schools and communities, he will get education at home and family. He is the prototype of both parents in social interaction. Therefore, this is where the role and responsibility of parents, sued for not negligent in educating the children.

Delinquent Hazard Educate Children In

Parents have a right must be carried out by children. Similarly, children also have rights that must be borne by both parents. Besides God commands us to devote to both parents. God also commanded us to do good (deeds) to the children and seriously educate. Such discharge part of the mandate of God. Conversely, neglect of their rights including the treasonous acts against the mandate of God. Many texts are mengisyaratkannya syar'i. He said.

"It means: Allah commands you to convey trust entitled to receive them" [An-Nisa: 58]

"It means: O ye who believe, do not betray Allah and the Messenger (Muhamamd) and (also) do not betray the messages entrusted to you, and ye know" [al-Anfal: 27]

Prophet alaihi wa sallam said:
"It means: Each of you is leader and accountability will be asked to lead. So, a priest is the leader and be responsible for the lead. A husband is the leader for his family and responsible for the lead "[Hadith Bukhari History]

"It means: Any person given a mandate by God to lead and then he died (while in) the day he died in circumstances that betray amanahnya, Allah forbid heaven bagianya" [Hadith Bukhari History]
While many parents know, that educating children is a big responsibility, but there are still many parents who neglect and underestimate this problem. So ignore this child's education problem, not the least concerned with the development of children.
Only later, when the children disobedience, against the parents, or deviate from the rules of religion and social order, many parents begin to panic or even blame the child. Tragically, many are not aware, that his parents are actually the main cause was the emergence of rebellious attitude.

Negligent or wrong in educating the child many different forms; that we unknowingly contribute to the emergence of rebellious attitude to parents, and juvenile delinquency.

Here are ten of error is often done by parents in educating their children:

[1]. Growing Fear And The Child minder
Sometimes, when the children cry, we frighten them to stop crying. We fear them with images of ghosts, jinns, the sound of wind and others. Impact, the child will grow up to be a coward: Scared of her own shadow, afraid of something that was not to be feared. For example fear into the bathroom alone, afraid to sleep alone because often heard stories about ghosts, spirits and others.

The most severe and unconsciously, we have been instilling fear to himself. Or for example, we are worried when they fell and there was blood on his face, hands or knees. And should we be calm and smiling face appeared frightened child. Not just to frighten him, slapped his face, or scold him and making a big deal. As a result, the children crying harder, and will be used to being scared when see blood or feel sick.

[2]. Being educated snob, Long Tongue, Congkak Against Others. And That Perceived as brave attitude.
This error is the opposite the first point. The truth is to be the middle, not excessive and no minus-cut. Dare not have to be cocky or arrogant to others. However, courageous and harmonious place if indeed the fear that something to be feared. For example: fear to lie, because he knew that if God does not like the kid who likes to lie, or the fear of a dangerous beast. We educate our children to be brave and not afraid of the truth in practice.

[3]. Kids familiarize Life spree, luxury, and Bermewah-snob.
With this habit, the child can grow into children who love luxury, like having fun. Only a selfish, no matter the circumstances of others. Educating children like this can damage the nature, killing attitude in being zuhud istiqomah in the world, membinasakah muru'ah (self) and truths.

[4]. Always Meet Demand Children
Some old people there who always wants to give every child, regardless of the good and bad for the children. Yet, not every child who wants it useful or appropriate to the age and needs. For example the child asked for a new bag is a trend, when only a month ago parents bought him a new bag. This will only spend money. If the child met all permintaanya used, then they will grow into a child who does not care about the value of money and hard for a living. And they will be people who can not spend the money properly.

[5]. Always Meet Demand Son, When Crying, especially small children.
It often happens, our children still ask for something small. If we reject it for some reason, he will force or his gun, which is crying. Finally, parents will soon meet the demands of compassion or to the child immediately stopped crying. This can cause the child to be weak, whiny and did not have identity.
[6]. Too Hard And Stiff In Facing Them, Exceed within reasonable limits.
For example, by hitting them until the bruising, scold him with a shout and scold, or in ways other hard. This sometimes happens when the children do wrong intentionally. And he (probably) only once did.
[7]. Too Pelit In Children, Exceed within reasonable limits
There are also parents who are too stingy to her children, until their children feel less fulfilled needs. In the end encourages children to find their own money with the kinds of ways. For example: by stealing, begging to others, or in other ways. What's worse, there are parents who would entrust their children to the orphanage to reduce the burden themselves. In fact, there is also a bear to sell her child, because it was not able to pay to live. Naa'udzubillah mindzalik

[8]. No Loving And Menyayangi They, so that Made Them Love Outside Looking To Find The house searched.
Such phenomena are happening. Has caused the children fall into the free-association-waiyadzubillah. A girl for example, because it does not get attention from his family he was seeking attention from men outside the family circle. He was glad to get attention from men, because often praised, flirting and so on. Until he was willing to give false honor for love.

[9]. Taking into account only physical needs Only.
Many parents think that they have to give the best for their children. Many parents feel that providing a good education, food and drink nutritious, good clothes and school quality. Meanwhile, there is no attempt to educate their children properly so that religious and noble. Parents forget that children are not given enough material only. The children also need attention and affection. If love is not in getting her home, then he will seek it from someone else.

[10]. To assume good too Son-son
There are some parents who always assume good faith for their children. Think, if their children well and felt no need to worry about, never checked on his children, not knowing a close friend of her son, or whatever activities. Really believe in their children. When a sudden, found her son hit disasters or aberrant symptoms, such as drug exposed, then startled parents. Trying to cover it up and immediately forgave him. Finally, the remaining hanyalan useless regrets.

Thus the ten mistakes that parents often do. We may also not realize when you do it. For that, let's try to keep up their knowledge, especially relating to children's education, so that we avoid mistakes in rearing children, which can be fatal to their future. We always pray, may our children grow up to be righteous and shalihah generation and noble. Bishshawab Allaah knows best.

[Adapted by Umm Shofia of the book At-Taqshir Fi Tarbiyatil Aulad, Al-Mazhahir Subulul Wiqayati Wal Ilaj, Muhammad bin Ibrahim Al-Hamad]

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

We must remember



As a touch of naturalness and human conscience is the sense of despair, though slightly. Sometimes when we are faced with overwhelming problems (pain, heartbreak, etc.) that seems difficult to resolve, suddenly in our hearts there is a sense of loose and not sure will be able to finish it, not sure I can get out of trouble, well, this is desperate.

We must remember, that despair with no effort out of trouble, instead menhancurkan yourself, because it was desperate to kill the fighting spirit and optimism ..

And if someone had not despair, of course it could face anything as complicated as patiently, full of strength and composure to think he was trying to find how the solution. If this is strong, willing, Alloh would easily eliminated all the barriers, thanks to the determination and spirit burning fire.

Unfortunately, many of us are easily discouraged, so that any problems that are sometimes mild, responded with a full load, slow in progress, full of doubt and pessimism. In the Qur'an verses 87 yusuf letter written clearly, which means: you
nah, how?

Heart, when it broke out,


Assalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh

Suddenly the front window was shattered. The reason only one, because a stone thrown by a man who with his hands without any sense of feeling and a wise and clear shot of his fingers into the glass window.

Someone, either dianya male sex, or sex
women, with no perasaanpun can do the same thing in human surroundings, whether it was his enemy, his friend, even though her boyfriend.

Heart, when it broke out, the yield lentak, difficult to put back together as normal, as were the windows. Another thing, if that glass was thick glass, stubborn, does not have an element of a smooth as glass crystal, which has a good refinement of shape, color and content, not so easy to put it together again as the original.

Thousands of apology that came out of sipelempar glass tadipun, not necessarily be the scars disappear, although with a million ways.

That is why, O beings who have minds and feelings within. We are not animals, which scratch easily anyone with the power lies with us. Powers of office, rank, wealth, power and even beauty, good looks, and excess interest and love ones. Even wild animals, still preyed thinker thinkers, we apatah human again.

Human beings will never escape the shortcomings and mistakes. However, if we lack this, will we use without reasonable consideration has been given by Allah Ta'ala to hurt our neighbor?

Fear mendzalimi oppression and others, because one of the prayers that no limits (which were answered) by Allah Ta'ala is, "Benediction people in dzalimi".

Do not think God slept. God never sleeps. Do not think that our prayers dzalimi people ignore Allah, the Exalted, and do not guessed, the Palestinians and the prayers of any people left terdzalimi Allaah. No ,..!! God I never sleep, we must believe it. Just wait for the game date. When Allah the Exalted has said: "" Kun "= be it, then" fayakun "= there he".

Therefore, let us start from things that seem trivial, stay away from doing dzalim to anyone. Dzalim not only an armistice, rude, harsh words, dzalim could apply to all the attitude and the condescending words, insults, corruption, and all line-lika-wound, Meander kehidupan.Karena caution when injured, such as hard again original.


"Quantum Wallohu wa laa yaAAlamu Ta'lamun"
deliver even a single paragraph

Wassalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh

Get familiar positive thinking

Bismillahirrahmaanirrahim

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh

Get familiar positive thinking

There are angry ...

There are annoyed .....

While a writer to write the article, When a writer to write his experience he might upset, .. because there is wearing on him he was mad at the writers, but do not know Or sipenulis he knew the author, and do not intend sipenulis
menyindirnya, Let's say, .. the words and writers who wore a sharp hit him.

Try us consider the word-the word of God, please .. ponder ....

A lot of sarcastic and wore away, the behavior and attitude
It's just cool Or maybe we did not want to read it
Or even we felt there was nothing mean When the author writes without any intention ..

Uh .. the reader to feel exposed and tersindir,. Sipenulis do not know him yet Even if we truly understand and reflect on
oracles of God's will so much more things that hit us, but. maybe we are less aware of

Or we less often read Or we often read it. But do not absorb and comprehend its meaning, Are we angry and upset at the Khaliq, when God says:

Do not you think berburuk, because suspicion of a sin?

Do not you hurt your parents

Do not set your neighbor mendzalimi

Do not be mocked and insulted your fellow

Then, when God says and tells the story of the first, if we are angry Do we say, what we get from the content
story?

Does God explains in detail the benefits of the stories in the Quran?

No. .. God just say: Take pelajaranlah by you

But unfortunately we are not smart people take lessons
from the stories we wants a child who fed exclusively mother
Tau was first given for the benefit ..

No, Allah always gives lessons in various forms in humans Studies of law, order, prohibition, the stories and the most in the Quran instead of stories.

This is why? Because God is known by human Ceritalah easier to digest

But .. of course not all people can understand what the
implied from the explicit Not all men use his mind to clear and clean heart

This is all because of the heart, mind, and our conscience is not always positive thinking

Thingking berpositive get used to it takes time and training exercises One is with a lot of patience
read in many ways.

Many human understanding, a lot of other people read,

many associate with various patterns of community

Look at the Prophet and his companions lived in the human face even less sense if we are angry, upset against writing one, should have ourselves a question.


Wassalamu'alaikum.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

salafy-wahaby

ini ada postingan di tread "hakikat tasawuf dan sufi" nah ada kata salafiyah ini postingannya: "Bisa Jadi Salafisme/Wahabisme Itulah Yang Tersesat Salafiyah Tidak seperti yang kami duga sebelumnya, mungkin juga anda, almarhum Syeikh Ghazali, DR. Yusuf Qaradhawi, DR. Ramdhan al-Bouti, DR. Aly Gum'ah Mufti Mesir, dan sejumlah tokoh Islam lainnya yang selama ini dikenal moderat, ternyata juga tak luput dari hujatan, dibid'ahkan, bahkan kadang dianggap berpikiran sesat, oleh sekelompok orang yang mengaku salafi. Syeikh Ghazali menamakan kelompok yang kerap mengaku paling salafi ini sebagai Salafi-Baru. Tak cukup individu saja yang dikecam, organisasi-organisasi sosial-keagamaan yang tidak sejalan dengan pemikirannya, seperti Nahdhatul Ulama (NU), Jama'ah Thoriqoh Muktabarok (Thoriqoh yang diakui keabsyahannya di dunia Islam), Ikhwan Muslimin, dll, pun juga kena semprot bahkan dikatakan sesat. Seringkali yang terakhir ini diplesetkan menjadi Ikhwanul Muflisin. Fenomena ini, dalam konteks kepentingan Islam global, tentu sangat tidak menarik, bahkan mengkhawatirkan! Karena mengganggu soliditas dan persaudaraan umat. Juga mengganggu konsentrasi primer yang lebih mendesak untuk digarap umat Islam dewasa ini, yaitu pendangkalan pemahaman hakikat Islam, mengentas kemiskinan, mengejar ketinggalan dalam bidang pendidikan, hi-tec, wawasan peran global dan hal krusial lainnya. Terma Salaf Secara etimologis, kata salaf sepadan dengan kata qablu. Artinya setiap sesuatu yang sebelum kita. Lawan kata salaf adalah khalaf (generasi setelah kita). Kata ini kemudian menjadi sebuah terminologi untuk menunjuk pada generasi keemasan Islam, tiga generasi pertama Islam: para Sahabat, Tabi'in dan Tabi' Tabi'in atau Salaf Shalih. Istilah ini merujuk pada hadis Nabi: Khairul quruni qarni..... (H.R. Bukhari dan Muslim). Dalam wacana Islam kontemporer, kata salaf kemudian diimbuhi ya nisbat pada hurup akhirnya: menjadi salafi, kadang juga salafiyah dengan penambahan ta, setelah ya, untuk menunjuk pada kelompok Islam yang menjadikan cara berpikir dan suluk generasi salaf sebagai sumber inspirasi. Bahkan beberapa kelompok salafi menganggapnya sebagai mazhab. Terma salafi pada perkembangan berikutnya, mengalami metamorfosis dan tidak bisa diartikan tunggal lagi. Kalimat itu menjadi multi makna. Sikap tak terburu-buru dalam analisis menjadi sebuah keniscayaan ketika menemukan kalimat salafi. Karena pada tingkat sesama pemikir saja, umpamanya, konotasinya bisa berbeda satu sama lain. Misalnya, Goerge Tharabisi dan Aziz Azmah, menggunakan kata salafi untuk sesuatu yang pejoratif: untuk menunjuk arus pemikiran atau kelompok yang anti segala hal yang berbau modernitas dan anti pembaharuan. Lawan dari terma salafi model ini adalah progresif (taqadumi). Sementara, Abid Jabiri, Fahmi jad'an, dan sebagian orientalis menggunakan istilah salafi untuk menunjuk pada setiap gerakan atau pemikiran Islam, yang menjadikan al-Qur'an dan Hadis sebagai sumber utama pemikirannya. Makna yang terakhir ini cakupan lebih luas: memasukan banyak tokoh dan kelompok Islam, baik yang moderat, "literal" -dzahiriyah judud, dan semua kecenderungan pemikiran yang menjadikan al-Qur'an dan Hadis sebagai rujukan utama. Pada tingkatan klaim antar sesama kelompok pengikut salafi, juga tak kalah ruwetnya. Banyak sekali kelompok yang mengklaim dirinya sebagai salafi hakiki. Di Kuwait, misalnya, data menunjukkan ada lima kelompok yang sama-sama mengaku sebagai salafi, satu sama lain saling kecam dan mendaku sebagai yang paling sah. Sejatinya, salaf bukanlah sebuah mazhab dan juga bukan personifikasi individu. Seperti pernah disinggung di atas, ia adalah sebuah generasi yang disabdakan Nabi sebagai generasi terbaik, yang mencakup tiga generasi Islam pertama. Kenapa dianggap yang terbaik? Karena mereka adalah generasi yang paling dekat, dengan pengertian seluas-luasnya, dengan masa kenabian. Terutama generasi pertama yang langsung dapat bimbingan dari Rasulullah Saw. Apa makna hadis ini bagi generasi setelahnya? Hadis ini mengajak kita semua untuk menjadikan metode berpikir dan cara bersikap mereka sebagai sumber inspirasi. Bukan malah dijadikan mazhab! Maka tak semua yang mengaku salafi akan otomatis berpikiran kolot. Tergantung kepada artikulasi dan cara memahami pola berpikir dan suluk salaf shalih itu sendiri. Dalam pandangan saya, salafi sejati tidak akan berpikir dan bersikap kaku. Dan kata salaf sendiri secara bahasa sangat netral dan sama sekali tidak mengandung arti pejoratif. Hanya saja, karena berbagai faktor, pada akhirnya, istilah salafi sangat identik dengan kelompok Wahabi, sebuah aliran yang didirikan Syeikh Muhamad Bin Abdul Wahab (1703-1791) di Najd, Arab Saudi. Sebagian dari mereka, ada perasaan bahwa dirinya lah yang paling salafi. Mereka sendiri, sebetulnya lebih enjoy dipanggil salafi, daripada Wahabi. Tapi, sayangnya ditangan mereka, makna salafi kemudian dicederai, dikerangkeng pada permasalahan furu'iyah dan perdebatan-perdebatan lama ulama klasik, baik di bidang Fikih, Ilmu Kalam, Tashawuf. Dalam Fikih mereka lebih konsen: membid'ah-bid'ahkan tradisi maulid nabi, ziarah, tawasul dan yang sejenisnya. Dalam Ilmu Kalam, alih-alih menanamkan hakikat makna tauhid, mereka memperdebatkan kembali tentang, misalnya, asma wa sifat dan bahayanya menta'wil ayat ar-Rahmanu 'ala al-'arsyi istawa dengan tawil sebagai kinayah dari keagungan Allah Swt, dll. Mereka akan mengecam siapa pun yang tidak sejalan dengan alur pemikirannya. Tak heran, kalau dicermati karya-karyanya, maka kita akan menemukan daftar-daftar bid'ah mulai yang klasik sampai bid'ah kontemporer. Judulnya pun bisa kita tebak seputar rad wa al'tirad mandul: fulan dalam timbangan Islam, mengcounter pemikiran fulan atau menelanjangi pemikiran fulan. Tentu saja bukan berarti kita tidak boleh untuk mendiskusikan kembali soal-soal di atas. Yang tidak boleh adalah menjadikan permasalahan di atas sebagai prioritas utama. Tulisan ini dimaksudkan sebagai pengantar singkat untuk membedah dan mendiskusikan kembali metode dan gerakan Salafi-Wahabi saja. Tak akan membahas gerakan salafi secara umum. Sudah kita maklumi semua, akhir-akhir ini, dalam beberapa hal, sebagian oknum yang berafiliasi pada kelompok Salafi-Wahabi dianggap kerap melakukan tindakkan-tindakkan yang berpotensi merusak citra Islam, meresahkan dan banyak menimbulkan perpecahan dikalangan intern umat Islam. Tidak hanya di Timur Tengah, tapi juga di negara-negara dimana ada komunitas Islamnya, termasuk di Barat. "Lawannya" pun di batasi hanya dari kelompok-kelompok moderat saja: Syeikh Qaradhawi cs. Artinya, kritikan-kritkan keras Wahabi yang ada di tulisan ini, ditunjukkan buat tokoh-tokoh di atas yang selama ini dianggap moderat dan diakui otoritas keilmuannya. Poinnya, betapa sama tokoh moderat pun Wahabi masih merasa kegerahan. Sebelum mengenal lebih jauh tentang dasar pemikiran Salafi-Wahabi, ada baiknya kita petakan secara sederhana dulu gerakan awal salafi, dengan menjadikan Mesir, Maroko dan Saudi sebagai sampel. Peta Gerakan Salafi Gerakan Salafi, lebih-lebih mulai awal abad 19 M. tidak hanya disuarakan di Arab Saudi saja, tapi juga di berbagai negara Islam, diantaranya Mesir, dan Maroko. Yang menyatukan gerakan salafi ditiga negara itu adalah keseriusannya terhadap pemberantasan bid'ah, purifikasi akidah, perlawanan atas gerakan tasawuf. Mungkin karena suasana dan tuntutan lingkungan yang berbeda, membuat Salafi Maroko dan Mesir dengan Jamaludin al-Afghani dan Muhamad Abduh sebagai pionirnya kemudian mempunyai kekhasan yang tidak dimiliki Salafi-Saudi atau Salafi-Wahabi. Misalnya, Salafi Maroko dan Mesir bisa lebih terbuka dengan modernitas dan tidak berhenti berkutat pada persoalan purifikasi akidah saja. Mereka mengalami lompatan perjuangan. Dalam kasus salafi Mesir, mereka langsung bergelut dengan problem kebangsaan yang sedang dihadapi. Abduh berani melakukan pembaharuan keagamaan, bahasa Arab dan reformasi fundamental metode pendidikan di universitas al-Azhar. Salafi Mesir juga bergabung bersama pemerintah mengangkat senjata untuk mengusir penjajahan Perancis. Hal yang sama pun berlaku bagi kelompok Salafi Maroko. Sementara Salafi Arab Saudi dihadapkan pada kenyataan lain. Mereka sibuk bertempur dengan saudara seagama. Secara eksternal dan dengan diback-up Inggris, mereka berperang melawan Dinasti Ustmani. Pada tingkat internal mereka keasyikan melakukan purifikasi akidah dan memberantas tarekat-tarekat sufi yang saat itu berkembang pesat di Arab Saudi. Latar belakang inilah mungkin yang kemudian bisa menjelaskan kenapa kelompok salafi Arab Saudi sangat keras: berpikir sempit dan kolot. Dasar-Dasar Pemikiran Salafi-Wahabi Apresiasi kita sama Wahabi yang sangat peduli dengan laku sunah, otentifikasi sanad hadis, purifikasi akidah dengan memberantas bid'ah-bid'ah, tak bisa menghapus kesan kuat, bahwa secara umum, baik dalam bidang pemikiran, keagamaan, sosial dan politik sebagian orang yang berafiliasi kepada Wahabi banyak mengadopsi pendapat-pendapat keras-kaku. Mulai dari mengharamkan sistem demokrasi, sistem partai, konsep nation-state, kepemimpinan wanita bahkan wanita tidak boleh menyetir mobil sendiri, membid'ahkan maulid Nabi, ziarah kubur, zikir jama'ah, anti sufi sampai fatwa haram menggunakan sendok makan (lihat misalnya fatwa salah satu tokoh Salafi-Wahabi Yaman, Syeikh Muqbil dalam bukunya: as-Shawaiq Fi Tahrim Malaiq atau Halilintar: Tentang Haramnya Memakai Sendok. Mencermati daftar permasalahan-permasalahan yang disesatkan-dibid'ahkan oleh mereka, maka kita akan berkesimpulan, bahwa kebanyakan daftar itu masuk wilayah mukhtaf fihi: suatu wilayah yang masih dan akan selalu diperdebatkan karena berangkat dari dalil yang tidak qath'i ats-tsubut wa ad-dilalah atau tidak ada ijma ulama. Sebetulnya sikap ulama klasik sudah sangat jelas dan bijak, bahwa dalam wilayah yang masih mukhtalaf fihi, siapa pun tidak boleh memaksakan pendapatnya. Karena akan terjebak pada fanatisme bermazhab dan perpecahan seperti sekarang ini. Semua orang bebas dengan pilihannya. Pertanyaannya: apa gerangan yang menyebabkan konsentrasi mayoritas dari mereka tersedot pada hal-hal yang masih diperdebatkan? Apa yang membuat mereka seolah lupa bahwa masalah pokok umat Islam sekarang adalah kemiskinan, ketinggalan dalam bidang pendidikan, hi-tech dan bidang primer lainnya? Realitas di atas terjadi karena dasar pemikiran mereka banyak berlandaskan pada, diantaranya: 1.Ada pembalikan skala prioritas pada cara berpikir dan bertindaknya. Misalnya, mereka lebih memilih meneriakan slogan bid'ah-sesat pada orang yang merayakan acara maulid, ziarah kubur, dll yang hukumnya masih mukhtaf fihi, walapun berpotensi mengancam persatuan umat. Karena jelas sikap keras itu akan menimbulkan ketersinggungan dan menimbulkan aksi balas yang kontra-produktif. 2.Dalam bidang pengetahuan agama, mereka terlalu konsen dengan menghafalkan tumpukan matan-syarah kitab, dan sibuk dengan fikih furu'iyah yang sering tidak di bandingi dengan pengetahuan kontemporer, sehingga yang terjadi adalah keluarnya fatwa-fatwa keras pada soal khilafiyah yang sering bertabrakan dengan kemaslahatan umat. 3.Menutup pintu kebenaran dari pendapat orang lain. Seolah yang benar hanya dirinya saja. Efeknya mereka menekan orang lain untuk ikut pendapatnya. Bahkan sebagian dari mereka tak segan untuk menyesatkan ulama yang berfatwa kebalikan dari pendapatnya. Lihat misalnya kasus yang menimpa pengarang buku best seller, La Tahzan, Dr. 'Aidh al-Qarni yang dikecam habis gara-gara berfatwa wanita boleh tak memakai cadar dan boleh ikut pemilu. Hal yang sama juga pernah menimpa almarhum Syeikh Ghazali dan Syeikh Qaradhawi. 4.Sering me-blowup permasalahan ajaran sufi, ziarah kubur, maulid nabi, tawasul dan sejenisnya, seolah-olah ukuran tertinggi antara yang hak dan bathil. Tapi pada saat yang sama mereka tidak peduli pada kebijakan publik dari pemerintahnya yang kadang tidak berpihak pada kepentingan rakyat dan umat Islam. Mereka taat total pada penguasa yang kadang kebijakannya tidak arif. Sangat jarang, kalau tak dikatakan tak ada, tokoh-tokoh Wahabi melakukan kritik pedas pada pemerintahan Arab saudi soal soal sistem pemerintah, kebijakan penjualan minyak, kebijakan politik luar negeri, lebih-lebih mengkritik "kedekatan" pemerintahanya sama Amerika dan sekutunya. 5.Terlalu mengagungkan tokoh-tokoh kuncinya, semisal Ibnu Taymiah, Bin Baz, dll, sehingga mengurangi nalar kritis. Padahal, pada saat yang sama mereka berteriak anti taklid! 6.Terlalu asyik dengan permasalahan mukhlataf fihi, sehingga sering lalai dengan kepentingan global umat Islam 7.Terlalu tekstualis, sehingga sering menyisihkan pentingnya akal dan kerap alergi dengan hal-hal baru. Lembaran Hitam di Balik Penampilan Keren Kaum Wahabi : Ke mana-mana selalu menyebarkan salam. Selalu memakai baju bercorak gamis dan celana putih panjang ke bawah lutut, ciri-khas orang Arab. Jenggotnya dibiarkannya lebat dan terkesan menyeramkan. Slogannya pemberlakuan syariat Islam. Perjuangannya memberantas syirik, bid ah, dan khurafat. Referensinya, al-Kitab dan Sunah yang sahih. Semuanya serba keren, valid, islami. Begitulah kira-kira penampilan kaum Wahabi. Sepintas dan secara lahiriah meyakinkan, mengagumkan. Tapi jangan tertipu dulu dengan setiap penampilan keren. Kata pepatah jalanan, tidak sedikit di antara mereka yang memakai baju TNI, ternyata penipu, bukan tentara. Pada masa Rasulullah r, di antara tipologi kaum Khawarij yang benih-benihnya mulai muncul pada masa beliau, adalah ketekunan mereka dalam melakukan ibadah melebihi ibadah kebanyakan orang, sehingga beliau perlu memperingatkan para Sahabat t dengan bersabda, Kalian akan merasa kecil, apabila membandingkan ibadah kalian dengan ibadah mereka. Demikian pula halnya dengan kaum Wahabi, yang terkadang memakai nama keren kaum Salafi . Apabila diamati, sekte yang didirikan oleh Muhammad bin Abdul Wahhab an-Najdi (1115-1206 H/1703-1791 M), sebagai kepanjangan dari pemikiran dan ideologi Ibnu Taimiyah al-Harrani (661-728 H/1263-1328 M), akan didapati sekian banyak kerapuhan dalam sekian banyak aspek keagamaan. A. Sejarah Hitam Sekte Wahabi, seperti biasanya sekte-sekte yang menyimpang dari manhaj Islam Ahlusunah wal Jamaah memiliki lembaran-lembaran hitam dalam sejarah. Kerapuhan sejarah ini setidaknya dapat dilihat dengan memperhatikan sepak terjang Wahabi pada awal kemunculannya. Di mana agresi dan aneksasi (pencaplokan) terhadap kota-kota Islam seperti Mekah, Madinah, Thaif, Riyadh, Jeddah, dan lain-lain, yang dilakukan Wahabi bersama bala tentara Amir Muhammad bin Saud, mereka anggap sebagai jihad fi sabilillah seperti halnya para Sahabat menaklukkan Persia dan Romawi atau Sultan Muhammad al-Fatih menaklukkan Konstantinopel. Selain menghalalkan darah kaum Muslimin yang tinggal di kota-kota Hijaz dan sekitarnya, kaum Wahabi juga menjarah harta benda mereka dan menganggapnya sebagai ghan mah (hasil jarahan perang) yang posisinya sama dengan jarahan perang dari kaum kafir. Hal ini berangkat dari paradigma Wahabi yang mengkafirkan kaum Muslimin dan menghalalkan darah dan harta benda kaum Muslimin Ahlusunah wal Jamaah pengikut mazhab Hanafi, Maliki, Syafi i, dan Hanbali yang tinggal di kota-kota itu. Lembaran hitam sejarah ini telah diabadikan dalam kitab asy-Syaikh Muhammad bin Abdul Wahh b; Aq datuhus-Salafiyyah wa Da watuhul-Ishl hiyyah karya Ahmad bin Hajar Al-Buthami (bukan Al-Haitami dan Al- Asqalani) ulama Wahabi kontemporer dari Qatar , dan dipengantari oleh Abdul Aziz bin Baz. B. Kerapuhan Ideologi Dalam akidah Ahlusunah wal Jamaah, berdasarkan firman Allah, Tidak ada sesuatu pun yang serupa dengan Dia (Allah) (QS asy-Syura [42]: 11), dan dalil aqli yang definitif, di antara sifat wajib bagi Allah adalah mukh lafah lil-haw dits, yaitu Allah berbeda dengan segala sesuatu yang baru (alam). Karenanya, Allah itu ada tanpa tempat dan tanpa arah. Dan Allah itu tidak duduk, tidak bersemayam di Arasy, tidak memiliki organ tubuh dan sifat seperti manusia. Dan menurut ijmak ulama salaf Ahlusunah wal Jamaah, sebagaimana dikemukakan oleh al-Imam Abu Ja far ath-Thahawi (227-321 H/767-933 M), dalam al- Aq dah ath-Thah wiyyah, orang yang menyifati Allah dengan sifat dan ciri khas manusia (seperti sifat duduk, bersemayam, bertempat, berarah, dan memiliki organ tubuh), adalah kafir. Hal ini berangkat dari sifat wajib Allah, mukh lafah lil-haw dits. Sementara Wahabi mengalami kerapuhan fatal dalam hal ideologi. Mereka terjerumus dalam faham tajs m (menganggap Allah memiliki anggota tubuh dan sifat seperti manusia) dan tasyb h (menyerupakan Allah dengan makhluk-Nya). Padahal menurut al-Imam asy-Syafi i (150-204 H/767-819 M) seperti diriwayatkan olah as-Suyuthi (849-910 H/1445-1505 M) dalam al-Asyb h wan-Nazh ir, orang yang berfaham tajs m, adalah kafir. Karena berarti penolakan dan pengingkaran terhadap firman Allah, Tidak ada sesuatu pun yang serupa dengan Dia (Allah). (QS asy-Syura [42]: 11) C. Kerapuhan Tradisi Di antara ciri khas Ahlusunah wal Jamaah adalah mencintai, menghormati, dan mengagungkan Rasulullah, para Sahabat, ulama salaf yang saleh, dan generasi penerus mereka yang saleh seperti para habaib dan kiai yang diekspresikan dalam bentuk tradisi semisal tawasul, tabarruk, perayaan maulid, haul, dan lain-lain. Sementara kaum Wahabi mengalami kerapuhan tradisi dalam beragama, dengan tidak mengagungkan Nabi r, yang diekspresikan dalam pengafiran tawasul dengan para nabi dan para wali. Padahal tawasul ini, sebagaimana terdapat dalam Hadis-Hadis sahih dan data-data kesejarahan yang mutaw tir, telah dilakukan oleh Nabi Adam u, para Sahabat t, dan ulama salaf yang saleh. Sehingga dengan pandangannya ini, Wahabi berarti telah mengafirkan Nabi Adam, para Sahabat, ahli Hadis, dan ulama salaf yang saleh yang menganjurkan tawasul. Bahkan lebih jauh lagi, Nashiruddin al-Albani ulama Wahabi kontemporer sejak lama telah menyerukan pembongkaran al-qubbah al-khadhr (kubah hijau yang menaungi makam Rasulullah ) dan menyerukan pengeluaran jasad Nabi dari dalam Masjid Nabawi, karena dianggapnya sebagai sumber kesyirikan. Al-Albani juga telah mengeluarkan fatwa yang mengafirkan al-Imam al-Bukhari, karena telah melakukan takwil dalam ash-Shahih-nya. Demikian sekelumit dari ratusan kerapuhan ideologis Wahabi. Dari sini, kita perlu berhati-hati dengan karya-karya kaum Wahabi, sekte radikal yang lahir di Najd. Dalam Hadis riwayat al-Bukhari, Muslim, dan lain-lain, Nabi r bersabda, Di Najd, akan muncul generasi pengikut Setan . Menurut para ulama, maksud generasi pengikut Setan dalam Hadis ini adalah kaum Wahabi.. Poin-poin di atas, menggiring kita pada kesimpulan bahwa Salafi-Modern mengalami krisis metodologis dan krisis fikih prioritas. Maka tak terlalu mengherankan kalau mereka juga biasa mengecam keras, dan sering gerah dengan sikap dan pendapat tokoh yang saya sebutkan di mukadimah yang dikenal moderat dan mumpuni secara keilmuan. Kesimpulan ini tentu tidak bisa digenerilisir begitu saja kepada semua Salafi-Wahabi. Karena ini sikap yang tidak ilmiah dan tak adil. Tapi, minimal, kalau kita amati buku-buku yang beredar tentang salafi yang ditulis oleh kalangan mereka, juga mengamati milist, maupun website yang dikelolanya, sedikit banyak anda mungkin akan setuju dengan kesimpulan saya. Lebih-lebih kalau yang dijadikan sampel adalah kalangan generasi mudanya. Ada satu hal yang perlu digarisbawahi, dengan kritikan ini tidak berarti kita memandang remeh pada hal-hal yang mereka bahas. Juga tak berarti mereka tidak boleh memilih pendapat-pendapat yang menjadi keyakinannya. Itu adalah hak mereka. Yang salah adalah ketika pendapat-pendapat itu diekspor melewati teritorialnya kemudian dipaksakan kepada orang lain. Dan siapa saja yang menolak atau tidak ikut pendapatnya maka akan dihukumi bid'ah, bodoh akan hukum Islam dan disesatkan!

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"Can So Salafism / Wahhabism That's The Lost

Unlike Salafiyah we previously thought, perhaps you, the late Sheikh Ghazali, DR. Yusuf Qaradawi, DR. Ramdhan al-Bouti, DR. Aly Gum'ah Mufti of Egypt, and some other Muslim leaders have been known to moderate, was also not escaped the blasphemy, dibid'ahkan, sometimes even considered heretical thought, by a group of people who claim to salafi. Sheikh Ghazali calls the group most often claim this as a Salafi salafi-New.

Not enough individuals are condemned, social organizations, religious inconsistent with the rationale, such as Nahdhatul Ulama (NU), Jema'ah Thoriqoh Muktabarok (keabsyahannya recognized Thoriqoh in the Islamic world), the Ikhwan Muslimin, etc., were also subject to spray say even heretical. Often the latter diplesetkan be Muflisin Brotherhood.

This phenomenon, in the context of the global Islamic interests, certainly not very attractive, even worried! Because the solidity and brotherhood disturbing people. Also interfere with the primary concentration of the more urgent to work on today's Muslims, namely pendangkalan understanding of the nature of Islam, reduce poverty, to catch up in education, hi-tec, insight global role and other crucial things.

Terma Salaf

Etymologically, the word Salaf commensurate with qablu said. This means every thing is before us. Salaf is the opposite Khalaf (generation after us). These words later became a term to refer to the golden generation of Islam, the first three generations of Islam: the Companions, Tabi'in and Tabi 'Tabi'in or Salaf Salih. This term refers to the hadith of the Prophet: Khairul Qarni quruni ..... (H. R. Bukhari and Muslim).

In contemporary Islamic discourse, the word salaf then yes diimbuhi letters nisbat at the end: a salafi, sometimes with the addition salafiyah hand, after it, to refer to Islamic groups who made a way of thinking and mysticism generations of the Salaf as an inspiration. Even some groups regard as a school salafi.

Terma salafi in the next stage, metamorphosed and can not be interpreted single again. The sentence was to be a multi-meaning. Attitude no hurry in the analysis becomes a necessity to find a sentence salafi. Because the level of fellow thinkers have, for example, its connotation can be different from one another. For example, George Tharabisi and Aziz Azmah, using the word salafi pejoratif for something: to show the flow of thought or groups who are against all things anti-modernity and renewal. Salafi including opponents of this model is progressive (taqadumi). Meanwhile, Abid Jabiri, Fahmi jad'an, and some use the term salafi orientalis to refer to any movement or Islamic thought, which makes the Qur'an and Hadith as the main source of his thinking. This latter meaning a wider scope: includes many figures and Islamic groups, both moderate, "literally"-dzahiriyah judud, and all trends of thought which makes the Qur'an and Hadith as the primary reference.

At the level of claims between the members of the group salafi followers, was also ruwetnya. Lots of groups who claim to be salafi essential. In Kuwait, for example, the data shows there are five groups who are equally admitted as salafi, each other and claiming Kecam as the most legitimate.

Indeed, the Salaf is not a school nor a personification of the individual. As has been mentioned above, he is a prophet disabdakan generation as the best generation, which includes the first three generations of Islam. Why are considered the best? Because they are the generation most closely, with the widest sense, with the prophecy. Especially the first generation that can direct guidance of the Prophet. What is the meaning of this tradition for generations thereafter? This Hadith invites us all to make the method of thinking and the way they act as a source of inspiration. Used instead of schools! So not all who claim to be salafi automatically think conservative. Depending on the articulation and how to understand patterns of thinking and mysticism itself righteous salaf. In my view, will not be a true salafi thinking and being rigid. And the word Salaf is the language itself is very neutral and does not imply pejoratif.

Only, because of various factors, in the end, the term salafi is identical to the Wahabi group, founded a school of Sheikh Mohammed Bin Abdul Wahab (1703-1791) in the Najd, Saudi Arabia. Some of them, there is a feeling that he was the most salafi. Their own, they are more enjoy called salafi, than Wahabi.

But, unfortunately, their hands, meaning salafi then injured, caged in furu'iyah problems and long debates classical scholars, both in the field of Jurisprudence, Science Kalam, Tashawuf. In the more concentrated their Jurisprudence: membid'ah-maulid bid'ahkan prophet tradition, pilgrimage, tawasul and the like. In the Science of Kalam, instead of instilling the essence of the meaning of unity, they argue back about, for example, asthma and dangerous nature of the wa menta'wil ar-paragraph Rahmanu 'ala al-Tawil'arsyi as istawa with kinayah of the greatness of God exalted, etc.. They will condemn anyone who is not in line with the flow of thoughts. No wonder, if the scrutiny of his work, then we will find lists of heresy from the classical to the contemporary heresy. The title can we guess about al'tirad sterile wa rad: So and so the balance of Islam, mengcounter thought so and so or so and so bare thinking. Of course that does not mean we should not return to discuss the questions above. Which should not be a problem at the top make a top priority.

This paper is intended as a brief introduction to dissect and discuss the methods and re-Wahabi Salafi movement alone. Will not discuss the salafi movement in general. We tolerate all, lately, in some cases, some elements that are affiliated to the Salafi-Wahabi groups are often considered to tindakkan-tindakkan potentially damaging the image of Islam, raises disturbing and many internal divisions among Muslims. Not only in the Middle East, but also in countries where there are Islamic community, including in the West. "The opposition" even in the limit of moderate groups only: Sheikh Qaradawi et al. That is, criticism, harsh Wahhabi kritkan in this paper, shown for figures over who had been considered a moderate and recognized scientific authority. The point, how each character had moderate Wahhabi still feel the heat. Before you know more about the rationale Salafi-Wahabi, it's good we simply map the first initial salafi movement, by making Egypt, Morocco and Saudi Arabia as a sample.


Salafi Movement Map

Salafi movement, much less start early 19th century AD not only voiced in Saudi Arabia alone, but also in various Islamic countries, including Egypt, and Morocco. Salafi movement that unites the country is ditiga seriousness of the eradication of heresy, purification creed, resistance to Sufism. Perhaps because of the atmosphere and the demands of different environments, making Salafi Morocco and Egypt with Jamaludin al-Afghani and Muhammad Abduh as a pioneer and has a specificity that is not owned by Saudi-Salafi-Wahhabi or Salafi. For example, Morocco and Egypt Salafi be more open to modernity and do not stop to dwell on all creeds purification problems. They have leap struggle. In the case of Egyptian salafi, they wrestle with the problems facing nationality. Abduh dare religious reform, Arabic and fundamental reforms in the educational methods of al-Azhar university. Salafi Egypt also joined with the government to take up arms to expel the French colonial period. The same is also true for Morocco Salafi groups.


While the Salafi Saudi Arabia faced with another reality. They are busy fighting a civil religion. Externally and backed-up by the British, they fought against Ustmani Dynasty. At the internal level of fun doing them and eliminate purification creed Sufi orders, which then flourished in Saudi Arabia. This background is then possible to explain why the salafi groups Saudi Arabia is very hard: the narrow and old-fashioned thinking.


Thinking Basics Salafi-Wahabi

Wahabi same appreciation that we cared enough to do the sunna, hadith narrators authentication, purification creeds with combat heresy-heretic, can not erase a strong impression, that in general, both in the field of thought, religious, social, political and some people who affiliated to the Wahhabi many opinions to adopt hard-stiff. Starting from proscribe the democratic system, party system, the concept of nation-state, women's leadership can not even drive her own car, membid'ahkan maulid Prophet, grave pilgrimage, remembrance jama'ah, anti-Sufi until the fatwa haram to use a spoon to eat (see eg Fatwa one of the Salafi-Wahhabi Yemen, Sheikh Muqbil in his book: as-Shawaiq Fi Tahrim Malaiq or Lightning: About Wearing Spoon illegitimate.

Looking at the list of problems-dibid'ahkan led astray by them, then we would conclude, that most of the list entry fihi mukhtaf region: a region that is still and will always be debated because the argument departs from the ATS-qath'i not tsubut wa ad -dilalah or no scholarly consensus scholars. Actually, the attitude of classical scholars is very clear and wise, that the region still mukhtalaf fihi, anyone should not impose his opinion. Since going to be stuck on bermazhab fanaticism and division as now. Everyone is free with his choice.

The question is: what was the concentration that causes the majority of them sucked on the things that are still debated? What made them forget that as Muslims the main problem today is poverty, left behind in education, hi-tech and other primary field?

Reality on the place because of their rationale is based on many, including:

1.Ada priority scale reversal on how to think and bertindaknya. For example, they prefer slogans heresy meneriakan lost on those who celebrate the event Maulid, grave pilgrimages, etc are still mukhtaf fihi law, even if potentially threaten the unity of the people. Because obviously that tough talk would cause irritation and cause of action back to counter-productive.

2.Dalam field of religious knowledge, they are too concentrated to memorize the stack-Sharh honor books, and busy with a lot furu'iyah jurisprudence is not in bandingi with contemporary knowledge, so that there are fatwas out loud at the question khilafiyah often collided with benefit the people.

3.Menutup door of truth from other people's opinions. As if that was just him alone. The effect they press others to join his opinion. Even some of them do not hesitate to mislead scholars who berfatwa opposite of opinion. See for example the case against the author of best-selling book, La Tahzan, Dr. 'Aidh al-Qarni been condemned because berfatwa women may not wear a veil and allowed to vote. The same thing had happened to the late Sheikh Ghazali and Sheikh Qaradawi.

Blowup 4.Sering had problems Sufi teachings, pilgrimage grave, Maulid prophet, tawasul and the like, as if the ultimate size of the rights and false. But at the same time they do not care about the public policy of the government who sometimes do not take sides in the interests of the people and the Muslims. Their total obedience to authority that is sometimes not wise policy. Very rarely, if not say no, the characters do excoriation Wahabi in Saudi Arabia about the government about the government system, the oil sales policy, foreign policy, much less criticize "closeness" as pemerintahanya America and its allies.

5.Terlalu glorify the key figures, such as Ibn Taymiah, Bin Baz, etc., thus reducing the critical reasoning. Yet, at the same time they shouted anti-imitation!

Preoccupied with problems 6.Terlalu fihi mukhlataf, so often neglected by the global interests of Muslims

7.Terlalu tekstualis, so often put aside the importance of reason and often allergic to new things.

Gazette Beyond Appearances Black Stuff The Wahabi: Everywhere always spread the love. Always wearing a patterned shirt and white pants gamis length below the knees, characteristics typical of Arabs. He let his beard thick and seem creepy. Slogan implementation of Islamic Shari'a. Struggle to eradicate polytheism, heresy, and superstition. References, al-Kitab and Sunna are valid. Everything was cool, invalid, un-Islamic. That's about the appearance of the Wahabi. Cursory and outwardly assured, amazing.

But do not be fooled once with every appearance of cool. Street saying goes, not least among those who wore military clothes, was a fraud, not a soldier. At the time of the Prophet r, between the typology Kharijites the seeds begin to appear at the time he is their perseverance in the worship service than most people, so he needs to warn of the Companions of the said t, you will feel small, when comparing the service you with their worship.

Similarly, the Wahhabis, who sometimes uses the name of the Salafis cool. If observed, the sect founded by Muhammad ibn Abd al Wahhab an-Najdi (1115-1206 H/1703-1791 M), as the representative of the thinking and ideology of Ibn Taymiyyah al-Harrani (H/1263-1328 AD 661-728), will many vulnerabilities found in many religious aspects.

A. Black History

Wahabi sect, as usual sects that deviate from Islamic manhaj wal Jamaah Ahlusunah have black sheets in history. The fragility of this history can be seen at least with respect to football exploits in the early emergence Wahabi. In which aggression and annexation (annexation) of Islamic cities such as Mecca, Medina, Ta'if, Riyadh, Jeddah, and others, who performed with the Wahhabi army Amir Muhammad ibn Saud, they consider jihad as fi Sabilillah of Friends conquered Persia and Rome or Sultan Muhammad al-Fatih conquered Constantinople.

In addition to blood justifies Muslims who live in cities and surrounding Hijaz, the Wahabi also looted their property and considered ghanmah (the war booty) which position the same as war booty from the infidels. This departs from the paradigm that mengkafirkan Wahhabi Muslims and justify the blood and property of Muslims Ahlusunah wal Jamaah sect followers Hanafi, Maliki, Shafii, and Hanbali who live in the cities. Dark pages of history has been immortalized in the book of ash-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Abd Wahhb; Aqdatuhus-Salafiyya wa-Ishlhiyyah work Dawatuhul Ahmad ibn Hajar al-Buthami (not Al-Haitami and Al-Asqalani ) contemporary Wahhabi clerics from Qatar, and dipengantari by Abdul Aziz bin Baz.

B. Fragility Ideology

In wal Jamaah Ahlusunah creed, based on the word of God, There is nothing like Him (God) "(Sura al-Shura [42]: 11), and the definitive proposition aqli, between the nature of God is mandatory for Mukh lafah lil hawdits, that God is different from anything new (natural). Therefore, God exists without a place and without direction. And God is not sitting, not dwelling on the Throne, has no organs and characteristics as humans. And according to the Consensus Ahlusunah Salaf wal Jamaah, as suggested by al-Imam Abu Jafar ath-Thahawi (H/767-933 AD 227-321), in al-Aqdah ath-Thahwiyyah, people who menyifati God with nature and human characteristics (such as the nature of the sitting, dwelling, located, directional, and have organs), is a kafir. This departs from compulsory nature of God, mukhlafah lil hawdits.

While the Wahhabis have fatal vulnerability in terms of ideology. They fall into schools of tajsm (think God has a body like human beings and nature) and tasybh (likening Allah to His creation). Yet according to al-Imam al-Shafii (150-204 H/767-819 M) as reported were as-Suyuti (849-910 H/1445-1505 M) in al-Asybh wan-Nazhir, berfaham tajsm people, are infidels. Because means rejection and denial of the word of God, There is nothing like Him (God). (Surat ash-Shura [42]: 11)


C. Fragility Tradition

Among typical wal Jamaah Ahlusunah is love, honor, and glorify the Prophet, his Companions, the pious Salaf, and their generation as the pious and the kiai Habaib expressed in such traditions tawasul, tabarruk, celebrating Maulid, haul, and others.

While experiencing the fragility of the Wahhabi tradition in religion, by not glorifying the Prophet r, is expressed in pengafiran tawasul with the prophets and the saints. Yet this tawasul, as found in the authentic Hadith-Hadith and historical data that mutawtir, has been done by Prophet Adam u, t of the Sahaba, and the pious Salaf. So with this view, the Wahhabi means have mengafirkan Prophet Adam, the Companions, Hadith expert, and the pious Salaf who advocated tawasul.

Even further, Nasiruddin al-Wahabi Albaniulama long kontemporersejak has called the dismantling of al-qubbah al-khadhr (green dome that shelters the tomb of the Prophet) and called for expenditure of the body of the Prophet Mosque Nabawi, because he considered as a source of kesyirikan. Al-Albani has also issued a fatwa mengafirkan al-Imam al-Bukhari, as has been done in the ash-takwil his Saheeh.

So a few of the hundreds of Wahabi ideological fragility. From here, we need to be careful with the works of the Wahhabis, the radical sect who was born in Najd. In history Hadith al-Bukhari, Muslim, and others, the Prophet r said, In the Najd, will appear next generation followers of Satan. According to the scholars, followers of Satan's generation mean in this Hadith is the Wahabi ..

Points above, leads us to the conclusion that the Salafi-modern crisis and the crisis jurisprudence methodological priority. So not too surprising that they also strongly condemns usual, and often hot with an attitude and opinion leaders that I mentioned in the preamble is known moderate and competent in science. This conclusion certainly can not just digenerilisir to all Salafi-Wahabi. Because of this attitude is unscientific and unfair. But, at least, if we look at the books in circulation about the salafi circles written by them, also watch mailing list, and manages the website, a lot of you would probably agree with my conclusions. Even more so if the sample is among the younger generation.

There is one thing that should be recognized, with this criticism does not mean we sell short on the things they discussed. Also did not mean they should not choose the opinions that the convictions. That is their right. What's wrong is when the opinions were exported through its territory and imposed on others. And anyone who refused or did not join his opinion it will dihukumi heresy, silly Islamic law and will be led astray!