Prophet Muhammad, even known as a loving man and very concerned about his wives.

A man, shyly asked for an Ustad. The old man, had sailed the marriage of more than 20 years.

The second pair is known as a hard worker (workaholic). His life was work, work, and work. Only, he admitted there was something missing in him. "Kemesraan," he said that he felt had been lost.

"I want to restore the atmosphere of intimacy is like the original, but how to get started Ustad?" He said. "Can we in the age of 50 who entered this year to enjoy intimacy with his wife as before?"

Intimacy is an important part to keep the Muslim family harmony. Do not let the troubled Muslim families do only for reasons of age. "Ah, old man, how was weird," so often spoken words of the old couple.

Non-verbal intimacy

Cuddling is the effort of husband and wife to show each other affection in the form of verbal and non-verbal. Sweet sayings, words are spoiled, and the gentle invitation, a verbal form of intimacy that can be husband and wife. Was a touch of hands and other body motion is romance in the form of non-verbal. Verbal intimacy alone is not enough without the non-verbal intimacy.

To convince you that at the age of 50 years the couple was able to realize the intimate relationship, following our Prophet nukilkan some peace 'alaihi wa sallam (SAW) which describes the intimacy with his wives. Nothing wrong build intimacy between husband and wife, although old age has been moved. Prophet Muhammad, even known as a loving man and very concerned about his wives.

Below is a secret intimacy of the Prophet:

1. Sleeping in a blanket with his wife

From Ata 'bin Yasar: "Verily the Prophet and' Aisha radi Anha (Ra) used to bathe together in a single vessel. When he was in a blanket with 'Aisha, a sudden' Aisha up. He then asked, 'Why have you got? "He replied,' Because I am menstruating, Messenger of Allah. 'His saying,' Then go, then berkainlah and closer back to me. 'I went inside, then wrapped up with him." (Historical Sa 'id bin Mansur)

2. Perfume gives the shame

'Aisha said, "Verily the Prophet when oiling his body, he started from the shame and mengolesinya with nurah (a type deodorizer powder), and other parts of her oiling her whole body." (History Ibn Majah)

3. Bathroom with wife

From 'Aisha, he said, "I used to bathe together with the Prophet with a single vessel. We used to put together our hands into the vessel. "(History of Abu Abdurrazaq and Ibn Abi Shaybah)

4. Combed wife

From 'Aisha, he said, "I used to comb the hair of Allah, when I was menstruating." (History Ahmad)

5. Asking his wife oiling

From 'Aisha, he said, "I anoint the body of the Prophet on the day of Eid al-Adha feast after he did jumrah Aqabah." (History Ibn' Asaakir)

6. Drink alternately at the same place

From 'Aisha, he said, "I used to drink from cans (glass) the same as menstruation, and the Prophet took the cans and put his mouth where I put my mouth, then he drank, then I take the cans, then I took it , then he took it from me, then he put his mouth on where I put my mouth, and he even breathe. "(History 'Abdurrazaq and Sa'id bin Mansur)

7. Kissing wife

From 'Aisha, "That the Prophet used to kiss his wife after ablution, then he repeated the prayer and not wudhunya." (History' Abdurrazaq)

8. Lie in the lap of his wife

From Aisha, he said, "The Prophet used to put her head on my lap while I was menstruating, then he read the Qur'an." (History 'Abdurrazaq)

9. Calling with tender words

Prophet used to call 'Aisha with some favorite nickname, like' Aisy and Humaira (ruby red cheeks).

Messenger romance so beautifully to the wife, gives an overview of how Islam is concerned with non-verbal communication, because the language would be more effective body express love and affection between husband and wife.

Well, still less let alone form that has kemesraaan exemplified by our Prophet? And have we bermuhasabah [mirror] to see what we have done for the husband and wife in order to keep our beloved this intimacy?

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