Lack skewer us with a friend, can cause terkoyaknya a friendship. Friendship is not just going along, gathered together, anywhere, always together. However, should these inner emotional bond must remain there even have separate bodies, many years too.
Here is an alternative to the ideal of friendship and eternal:
1. (Love and anger, because Alloh) this is the most important element in friendship. Because of this friendship with us is not only useful in the world, but also produces stunning fruit in the Hereafter
2. (Tell me if you love him) try to say in person or by mail, sms, telfon, etc.. Insyaalloh lasting friendship.
3. (Give present) simple ones, although the form of a biscuit, or a gentle massage on the sore shoulder
4. (Know kesukaanya, and avoid dislikes) particularly sensitive matters, such as he did not fit with someone. Try to restrain yourself for not bringing something she did not like, in front of him.
5. (Helps when she needs), especially when he's sick or sad. This is a decisive point, the extent to which loyalty as a true friend
6. (Comfort when he was sad) studied the body language and facial expressions, because not all the friends communicate their grief. So if you know your friend sad, without many words, accompany him in his grief
7. (It gives) do not ever expect that your friend will give a lot to you, but require you to provide the best for him, despite advice.
8. (For many heard) has a friend who will listen is the most liberating thing, especially when there is a problem. Although not necessarily our friends can help solve our problems.
9. (Keeping the distance for a moment) friendship remains saturation, so hang tight, or too much attention, will make a friend feel unable to move. So keep a certain distance with a friend, so that the rising sense of longing.
10. (Positive thinking (husnudzon) and be honest with him), especially if there is news about your friend italics
11. (Making him happy) such as birthday congratulations, heard her laments, comfort
12. (Love him what it is) understood and tried to understand him, it is important
13. (Sorry mistake) is keeping close friendship, even though your heart is torn by his attitude.
if we can do this 13, then the friendship will be attached to the end of life, insyaalloh
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